Showing posts with label gay cagayan de oro. Show all posts
Showing posts with label gay cagayan de oro. Show all posts

Wednesday, November 5, 2014

DiscreetBai Facebook account recovered!

FINALLY!  I was doing some room cleaning and found the password for DiscreetBai Facebook account.  I forgot everything including the email add and username.  I used a different email address and username for the DiscreetBai account.

Visit DiscreetBai Facebook page at http://www.facebook.com/discreetbai

 

Sunday, February 5, 2012

I DO NOT support Ladlad Partylist

Ladlad Partylist has recently named their nominees for the 2013 elections.  Ladlad is a LGBT (Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender) political party in the Philippines.  It unsuccessfully ran in the 2010 elections for the Party list system.  As a supporter of LGBT cause, I took the initiative in 2010 to support and campaign for Ang Ladlad online.  It was challenging to convince people online to vote for Ladlad but I believed it was about time that the LGBT's be represented in Congress.

At the height of the 2010 election count, some people began complaining online that they could not find Ang Ladlad Partylist in the ballot.  The ballot sheet was long and the prints were quite small to read.  It even took me time to carefully find and shade their name.  Instead of hearing gratitude from Ang Ladlad for the support of some people, their representative posted a statement in their Facebook account calling gay people "boba" and "di marunong magbasa" for not finding the name of Ang Ladlad in the ballot.  How can a representative of a political party call his constituents as "boba" (stupid) or "di marunong magbasa" (illiterate)?  Grabe basad nga panginsulto sa tao.  When I tried to complain online about the statement, instead of hearing an apology I was vilified.  Ako pa hinoon ang nahimo nga daotan.


Since then I have lost interest in Ladlad and vowed never again to support any political party representing LGBT's.  Politics is politics.  Even though you have good intentions but politics can change you for the worst.  Imagine if Ladlad won and that person continued on representing the party?


Monday, December 19, 2011

Upcoming DiscreetBai 12th Anniversary

Unknown to many, the name Discreet Bai has been used since the year 2000.  I basically coined the name which was derived from two unlikely words, Discreet and Bai. You can probably say that DiscreetBai established the online gay community in Cagayan de Oro.

I used to celebrate the anniversary of DiscreetBai on November 30 but I was not sure of the date.  The only date I could recall was the day I registered the name DiscreetBai and that was on February 2000.  So, a few years ago I decided to change the anniversary celebration to February.

DiscreetBai's 12th anniversary is fast approaching and I hope I can celebrate it with you all.  If you have any suggestions, please a comment.  I would like to hear from you guys.  Thanks!