Upcoming DiscreetBai 12th Anniversary

Unknown to many, the name Discreet Bai has been used since the year 2000.  I basically coined the name which was derived from two unlikely words, Discreet and Bai. You can probably say that DiscreetBai established the online gay community in Cagayan de Oro.

I used to celebrate the anniversary of DiscreetBai on November 30 but I was not sure of the date.  The only date I could recall was the day I registered the name DiscreetBai and that was on February 2000.  So, a few years ago I decided to change the anniversary celebration to February.

DiscreetBai's 12th anniversary is fast approaching and I hope I can celebrate it with you all.  If you have any suggestions, please a comment.  I would like to hear from you guys.  Thanks!

Beware of Fake DISCREETBAI Sites

I recently found a blog pretending to be the "Official DISCREET BAI" site.  Actually this is not the first time I have encountered these fake sites. The only way to discourage people from illegally using the DISCREETBAI name is for me to set up the URL http://discreetbai.com.  Since it is already done,  dili na gyud malibak.  DISCREETBAI.com is the Official DISCREETBAI site ug wala nay lain pa.  You can also follow me in Facebook at http://facebook.com/discreetbai

By the way, don't forget to register in our new Forum page.  Only registered members can see and post comments in the Forum page.  So register now and let the good times roll again :)

HIV / AIDS Awareness

Every week, I will be reposting this message over and over until everyone will gets the message....

Since the year 2000, I have been promoting safe sex and awareness of HIV/AIDS online through the DISCREET BAI™ network.  I have established DISCREET BAI™ chatrooms, Yahoo Groups, Facebook, Twitter, website (the former DISCREETBAI.webs.com) and now DISCREET CDO blog.

I do not understand why people think that if you are an advocate against HIV/AIDS or promoting safe sex, you have the disease.  Let me emphasize this, I don't have the disease ( I am HIV negative according to my test), so with other doctors and people who are on the front line in battling this disease.  You don't have to get the disease to understand it.  In fact the best people to promote safe sex are those who engage in gay sex yet are HIV negative like me :)  So, join me in this fight against HIV / AIDS.  Do not wait for your love ones or friends to get it.

For more discussions about HIV/AIDS click on this link

http://discreetcdo.blogspot.com/2011/07/hiv-aids.html

Video : Jacob

This is a short 3gp file of a guy jerking off.  I am sharing these videos before I delete all of my collection.  Anyone wants to share their personal videos? ;)  Email at discreetbai@gmail.com

DISCLAIMER : DISCREET CDO is not making any claims or suggestions to the sexual orientation or preference of the person in the video.

Three (3) the movie (Imagine the possibilities)

Three (3) is a movie written and directed by Tom Tykwer. The story revolves around a couple (man and woman) in their 40's who separately falls in love with the same man. Yes, you read it right, a bisexual man.  A ménage à trois? Who knows.....the possibilities are endless ;) 

Video : Self Suck

Self suck or autofellatio video is a bit difficult to find.  Thankfully I still have one in my file.  The big question is.....if a straight guy sucks his own dick, would that make him gay? What do you think?

DISCLAIMER : DISCREET CDO is not making any claims or suggestions to the sexual orientation or preference of the person in the video.
 

Man of Himologan 2008 series 4

The Man of Himologan was a defunct male pageant in Cagayan de Oro City.  It was part of the Kagay-an Festival 2008 celebration.  Here is series 4 of the photographs.  And by the way, yours truly was the photographer. 

DISCLAIMER : DISCREET CDO is not making any claims or suggestions to the sexual orientation or preference of the person or people in the photograph.

Gay Lingo

Here are some U.S. gay terms or gay lingo I got from the the book entitled, The Unofficial Gay MANual by Kevin Dillalo and Jack Krumholtz.  I also added some new terms.  The terms are arranged alphabetically for your convenience.  If you have some suggestions, please post a comment.  Thanks!

• Auto-fellatio (Self suck) - the act of sucking ones own penis
• Bareback - engaging in anal sex without the use of condoms
• Bear - refers to a man who is hairy or hefty.
• Bisexual - someone who prefers both man and woman
• Butch - a gay man or lesbian woman who acts very masculine
• Bottom - anal sex position, the guy who gets penetrated in the anus
• Boy toy - refers to a young guy for fling, company or escort
• Buffed - a fit guy with muscles
• Closet - a gay guy who remains in the closet or keeps his true sexuality a secret
• Chub Chaser - a person who prefers chubby or fat guys
• Come out - to accept your homosexuality and or stop hiding the fact that you are gay
• Cruise - to gaze at someone to get his attention or look for guys
• Cum - semen
• Cut - someone who is circumcised
• Drama Queen - a person who loves to stir up a situation and thrives on drama
• Daddy - matured or older gay man
• Discreet - someone who keeps his true sexuality a secret
• Down Low – straight men who enjoys gay sex. The term is commonly used among African-American men
• Effeminate - a gay man who is very feminine
• Fag Hag - a straight woman who spends a lot of time with gay men
• Family - refers to a gay person or part of the gay community
• Fetish - an unusual, sometimes bizzare sexual attraction to a certain act or object
• Fellatio (Blow job) - scientific term for sucking a mans penis
• Fisting (Handballing) – sexual activity that involves the inserting a hand into the vagina or rectum.
• Gaydar - derived from the words Gay and Radar.  It is ones ability to detect if a person is gay or not.
• Gay Pride - a gay march held every last weekend of June.  It commemorates the Stonewall (New York, USA) gay riot of June 28, 1969.  This marked the start of the modern Gay Rights Movement.
• Gym bunny - an effeminate gay man who has a great body from working out
• Lover - long time partner
• LGBT - Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender
• Nelly - effeminate.
• Openly gay (Open) - someone who does not hide his sexuality or being gay
• Rainbow Flag - adopted as the symbol for the entire gay movement and community
• Safe Sex - use of condoms and other measures to prevent STD
• Significant other - lover or boyfriend
• Sister - fellow gay man
• Size Queen - a gay man who is particular about penis size
• Son - a young gay man
• Spit - some one who spits out semen during oral sex
• STD - Sexually Transmitted Disease
• Straight - a heterosexual or "normal" man or woman
• Straight-acting (Butch) - a gay man who acts and looks like a straight guy
• Stocky - a gay man who has a large but compact body frame
• Swallow - someone who swallows semen during oral sex
• Top - anal sex position, the guy who penetrates the anus
• Twink - a young guy who has a slim body frame
• Versatile - anal sex position, a guy who can either be a top or bottom

Video : Bedsheet

Since people have been warned of the adult nature of this site, I guess there is no stopping us from posting adult videos here?  Enjoy your weekend!


DISCLAIMER : The identity, location and sexual preference of the person(s) in this video is not known.  This video was shared in a Group site.

More Blog Features and Issues Resolved

Finally resolved the Popular Posts issue in this blog.  Before you can only see one posted article and nothing else.  Now you can view the 10 most popular posts or articles in this blog.  The downside....the new code does not allow thumbnails.  Well, it is better than nothing at all.

I also added a chat feature in the blog using Meebo.  I am not yet familiar with Meebo but let's just try it for now.  If you can suggest a better alternative, post a comment.  I would like to hear from you guys.

Boarding House Swindler

For those staying in a boarding house or rented apartment with a room mate, you better read this.  Last August 25, I was watching TV Patrol Northern Mindanao (as reported by Lorenzo Luzon) and they reported on a guy who rents a room in a boarding house and then steals from his boardmates.  He has basically stolen laptops and other stuff in the boarding house.  He even racked up a huge debt from a sari-sari store.  The guy goes with the name Julian Perry Oga which I doubt is his real name.  His victims made a Facebook account so people would be aware of his modus and face.

For those of you who doubts the veracity of this information, here are links for your reference.  Syaro ang TV Patrol Northern Mindanao video di pa gyud katuohan.  If you see this guy, immediately call the nearest police station and provide them these links.  He might have already changed his appearance to avoid detection.  This incident has already been blottered in the Macasandig Police Station 9.

Facebook Account

http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100002384853380

Here is the video link to the TV Patrol Northern Mindanao News.  Go directly to the 31st minute of the video.
http://bcove.me/og02k4bd

Some of his photographs taken from Facebook

Man of Himologan 2008 series 3

The Man of Himologan was a defunct male pageant in Cagayan de Oro City.  It was part of the Kagay-an Festival 2008 celebration.  Here is series 3 of the photographs.

 

New Blog Features

I am still trying to learn the features of this blog.  Hopefully I can add more to make this blog informative and interactive like the former DISCREETBAI.webs.com website.  Of course I plan to add a chat feature but still could not find the right one.  I used ShoutOut before in DISCREETBAI but it was a bit basic.   There is now a Reaction box at the bottom of the article.  You can now give your reactions if you Like or Unlike the posted article.   If you have suggestions or comments, I would like to hear from you.  Salamat sa inyong tanan.

Barangay Gwapo 2011 Winner

Finally found some information on who won the Barangay Gwapo 2011.  Well, I don't really care but for those who might be interested, the winner is Ahmad Papandayan of Barangay Lumbia.  He is a student of Xavier University.  Which reminds me, Happy Eid ul Fitr to all Muslims!

Hallo Club Entertainment Bar

Me and my friends recently went to Hallo Entertainment Bar, a gay strip club located in the former Vacation Hotel Building along Ramon Chaves corner Corrales Streets (near Zaxs and Bahay Kubo).

We were expecting a "special guest" of sorts since it was the fiesta season in Cagayan de Oro.  To our disappointment, there was none.  In fact the dancers were so disappointing that we did not stay long in the bar.  I am not sure if their main dancers were absent and they had to force their messenger and janitor to dance on the stage.

They have an entrance fee of 90 Pesos in which they would collect after you ordered a beer (90 Peso beer).  Take note if you give 100 Pesos, mostly likely they wont give back the change.

Anti-Piracy Software Drive in Cagayan de Oro

This week, the Pilipinas Anti-Piracy Team (PAPT) will be conducting inspections of establishments in Cagayan de Oro City, whether they are using legitimate or pirated softwares.  Though this does not really concern me since my laptop has a genuine Windows OS and I purchased my Norton software online.  There are several softwares online in which you can download and use for free.  Here are some as suggested by other websites.

1.  Ubuntu (http://www.ubuntu.com/) - is a Linux Operating System which can be downloaded and used for free.  I was quite surprised when Ubuntu-Linux was being sold in pirated software shops in Cagayan de Oro.  If it is free, I do not think you should be selling it.

2.  Avast (http://www.avast.com/index) - is an anti-virus software which is sufficient for the average user.  You can download the software for free in their website.

3.  AVG (http://www.freeavg.com/) - is another anti-virus software free for download and use.  They also have an anti-virus software for smartphones, of course for free.

4.  Libre Office (http://www.libreoffice.org/) - is an alternative to the MS Office software.  It has a complete set of softwares similar to the MS Office.  Libre Office can open existing MS Word, Powerpoint and even MS Excel files.

5.  Open Office (http://www.openoffice.org/) - is another alternative to MS Office software.  This is more popular and known than Libre Office.  Again Open Office has a complete set of softwares similar to the MS Office.  It can also open existing MS Word, MS Excel, Powerpoint and others.  You can even save the Open Office files to MS Office format.

If you have other suggestions, post your comment here.  Thanks!

http://www.goldstardailynews.com/northern-mindanao-||-x/5336-countdown-to-anti-piracy-raids-begins-in-c-de-oro.html 

Man of Himologan 2008

The Man of Himologan was a defunct male pageant in Cagayan de Oro City.  It was part of the Kagay-an Festival 2008 celebration.  There was an attempt to organize the event again in 2009 but it did not push through.  I guess they really had a difficult time looking for guys willing to be dressed up like Barbie-Ken.  Anyway, here are some photographs I took during the pageant night in Dynasty Court Hotel.  As usual I will be posting the photographs in series.

Opening number

 

Kagay-an Festival 2011

Kagay-an Festival is a month long event in celebration of Cagayan de Oro City's Patron, Saint Augustine of Hippo (August 28).  This week alone, there are several events going on around the city.  I was quite surprised that the Kumbira Culinary Show, which is now ongoing in Limketkai Mall was not included in one of the "core events" of the festival.  By the way, August 29 (Monday) and August 30 (Tuesday) are declared holidays.  Click on the photograph to see the official list of events for the Kagay-an Festival.

Online Identity Theft

Sometimes we are quite open with our personal information online.  We share our photographs, emails, and even personal numbers to anyone without thinking of consequences.

Online identity theft is for real.  Gone are the days when thieves used knives or guns to steal something from us.  They can now easily do this online.  The most common item being stolen are photographs.  These are usually taken from social networking sites like Facebook, Friendster and photographs shared with strangers.  Take for instance the case of Aaron Villaflor, an ABS-CBN talent.  His photographs were copied and used by another person in Facebook.(http://beonline.com.ph/breakingNewsArticle.php?aid=2465&pageid=2).

We should be careful of our personal photographs and information.  Check the settings of your social networking account.  Do not allow strangers to see your personal information or photographs.  Avoid accepting strangers to your social networking account.  If possible separate your personal account for your family and friends from your acquaintances.  Place watermarks over your photograph.  And lastly, ask that person to chat with you online with a webcam.  If that guy refuses and makes so much excuses, be careful.  He might not be who you think he is.

Aaron Villaflor with ABS-CBN watermark

Recent Comments not working?

I can't find the Recent Comments in this blog.  Is it my computer, my internet connection or the blog itself?  Hope to get feed backs from you guys.  Thanks