Do you have game?

Have you heard these lines......Hey, do you want to watch porn at my place?  Do you want to go out for a drink in my place?........Pleeease!  It sounds desperate.  It is a lame excuse to get laid or have sex.  Come on guys!  It is 2012 not 1992.  If you have game, you can get anyone you want without making lame excuses.  All you need is your wit, charm and of course good conversational skills.  Before you know it, these guys will be begging for your number.

Share your thoughts.  What is your best pick up line? Let the games begin....

Who Should Pay on a Date?

Who pays for a date?  This is my rule of thumb...whoever invites the person to a date should pay for it.  Alangan...ikaw nag invite makigdate unya pa libre ka?  

If your date is still a student or earns less than you, then you are obligated to pay for the date. That is why it is not advisable to date a student if you are not financially stable.

Now if your date keeps on paying for you, it does not mean you do not even offer to pay.  Pay for the drinks, pay for small things that you can afford.  You can probably pay for the movie tickets, snacks or taxi fare.  Show your date that you can stand on your own and not be overly dependent on him.  

You don't have to be extravagant to win over your date.  Money can buy things but it can't buy happiness.

Hook ups and Friendship

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Also read on Tips and Cautions of Online Dating.  Always be cautious.  Not all people online have good intentions.  Click on this link http://discreetcdo.blogspot.com/2011/07/tips-and-cautions-of-online-dating.html

Tips and Cautions of Online Dating

When chatting on-line:
 
1.DO NOT GIVE your primary email address: if someone pesters you, block them from sending any more messages. Alternatively use a Hotmail or Yahoo address, rather than your work or home email address.

2.It is easy to become very open from behind the computer screen, but unfortunately, like everywhere else, there are dishonest people online. DO NOT DIVULGE your home address or telephone number, or work details until you are sure you can trust the person.

3.Like you, everyone else is anonymous: DON'T BELIEVE anything you are being told, or that every picture you see is in fact the person you are talking to. You might be able to verify a picture by asking them to send another photo of themselves, or by asking questions about the picture. Photos that may seem too professional may have been downloaded off the internet.

Meeting someone:

1.BE REASONABLE with your expectations. Don't let your fantasies run away with you – what somebody seems to be on-line might not be who they are face-to-face.

2.When meeting for the first time, arrange to MEET IN A PUBLIC place like a bar or a club, or with friends. You can always go somewhere more private later once you have met them and you are sure you can trust them. Do not rely on the other person for transport – then you can leave whenever you want.

3.LET SOMEONE KNOW who you are meeting and where. You can leave a note, keep a diary, email a friend, or ask someone to phone you on your mobile to make sure you are all right.

4.Apply your COMMON SENSE and the basic rules of personal safety. Maintain a healthy degree of suspicion: if anything seems odd, be careful

5.If you plan to meet a stranger for sex, be safe and take CONDOMS with you in case you need them.

6.DON'T FEEL compelled or pressured to do anything you don't want to. Should things get out of hand don't hesitate to report it to the police.

This article was taken from an online dating service (gaydar.nu)