Wednesday, July 27, 2011

Tips and Cautions of Online Dating



When chatting on-line:
 
1.DO NOT GIVE your primary email address: if someone pesters you, block them from sending any more messages. Alternatively use a Hotmail or Yahoo address, rather than your work or home email address.

2.It is easy to become very open from behind the computer screen, but unfortunately, like everywhere else, there are dishonest people online. DO NOT DIVULGE your home address or telephone number, or work details until you are sure you can trust the person.

3.Like you, everyone else is anonymous: DON'T BELIEVE anything you are being told, or that every picture you see is in fact the person you are talking to. You might be able to verify a picture by asking them to send another photo of themselves, or by asking questions about the picture. Photos that may seem too professional may have been downloaded off the internet.

Meeting someone:


1.BE REASONABLE with your expectations. Don't let your fantasies run away with you – what somebody seems to be on-line might not be who they are face-to-face.

2.When meeting for the first time, arrange to MEET IN A PUBLIC place like a bar or a club, or with friends. You can always go somewhere more private later once you have met them and you are sure you can trust them. Do not rely on the other person for transport – then you can leave whenever you want.

3.LET SOMEONE KNOW who you are meeting and where. You can leave a note, keep a diary, email a friend, or ask someone to phone you on your mobile to make sure you are all right.

4.Apply your COMMON SENSE and the basic rules of personal safety. Maintain a healthy degree of suspicion: if anything seems odd, be careful

5.If you plan to meet a stranger for sex, be safe and take CONDOMS with you in case you need them.

6.DON'T FEEL compelled or pressured to do anything you don't want to. Should things get out of hand don't hesitate to report it to the police.

This article was taken from an online dating service (gaydar.nu)

4 comments:

jay said...

tinuod gyud ni hehehehe di lang pataka hatag ug cellphone number especially kung main number nimo. mao na ako naa koy separate number para friends and family and sa akong inigat hehehehe

migs.miguel2012@gmail.com said...

Early 50s discrete guy here from manila planning on a vacation in cagayan de oro and davao mid january 2013. would like to meet some really decent friends to hang out with who prefer to be discrete and aren't into just hanging out to have sex.

Anonymous said...

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jim said...

Daghan ayo ko ug natun.an ani nga blog. Thanks a lot for taking time to share this article :) More power to you blog!