Tuesday, July 26, 2011

Top, Bottom or Versatile


Some guys are still confused of the terms Top, Bottom and Versatile.  According to Wikipedia, these terms simply describe the position or roles during a sexual intercourse (usually anal sex).  A TOP is the one who penetrates the person during anal sex while the BOTTOM is the one that receives the penetration.  The VERSATILE is the one that enjoys both penetration and receiving during anal sex.  Some guys are exclusively Top especially those so called "straight guys or trippers".  So do not expect them to bend over.  While others are exclusively Bottom and would immediately bend over for you.

This information is important if you want to hook up with someone.  If you are both Bottoms or Top, you will have a difficult time having sex.  Versatile guys are more flexible.  They can do either roles and can adopt easily.  So the next time you date someone.  Ask the question....You Top, Bottom or Versatile?

Links to discussion on Bottoming
http://youtu.be/kR5umfxQ54w




76 comments:

DiscreetBai said...

By the way, in Oral Sex, there is no such thing as Top, Bottom or Versatile.

bottom b4; top for d moment said...

i've tried being on top last sunday...heheheh...sheyt, lami xa peru haskang kapoya bai...sakit imong tuhod...kabalo pa ko, nag una ko ug fuck ayha ko nagpa fuck...heheheh...lami xa ug ang imo partner slim kay swak kaau...hmmmnnnnn...kinsay slim dha?pm me...hahahhahahhahahhahaha

Anonymous said...

i tried being bottom before, di ko satisfied. ambot di lang siguro kibalo ang top. so i am a top now but the problem is dali ra ko gawasan hehehehe samok kaayo

bottom b4; top for d moment said...

ah mao ba?mao, naay mga top nga d kabalo, pataka lang ug sulod ug kiyod...naay uban nga maau kaau...heheheh...magkita kaha ta para ma try nako ang pagka top nimo?hehehehhehe

jay said...

kapaspas basad hehehe indecent proposal na dayon. bitaw kapoy mag top kay muposition kaman gud. ang best nga top siguro kanang ga gym ug naay kusog.

Anonymous said...

cnu pwd makatrip dto? ung top...

Anonymous said...

ako top.. hehehhe-- khel

kundatan ko said...

number nimo khel beh...ako bahala sa place...pakan-on ta pa ka pagkahuman...hehehe...d lang q mubayad hap...hahahahah

Anonymous said...

hihihi.. hadlok ko..lol

myo said...

hahaha... tried to be top before.. but i enjoyed being bottom.... hehehe

Anonymous said...

i versa---dpend sa partner pero uban ingun top sila but while having sex kalit lang magpa bottom sako,, diko kasabot,, usual mahitabo sa akoa...

jay said...

myo...ako nag try kog bottom, walay lami, nag top ko dali ra gawasan, walay lami. ambot ani hehehehe

anonymous...mao na ni hehehehe pero basin diay versatile sya?

Anonymous said...

ako depende sa partner. dnt like versa guys. kung pure top ako partner mag bottom ko. but kung pure bottom ako partner mag top ko. walay lami ang versa to versa bai.

Anonymous said...

Gas.. i really want to try it..ehehe.. but im afraid...(CHARRRR) pa demure? aahaha... Good luck nako.. 100% Virgin pajud ni nga bata...tsk3

jay said...

try ka pa bottom? andam nalang hehehehe

Anonymous said...

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bottom guy said...

ako...game kaau...

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Anonymous said...

Whatever position as long as ganahan kau ka sa imo partner that's what matters... :-)

Anonymous said...

importante sa ako ang sexual chemistry. kung pareho mo top or bottom, maglisod gyud. kinahanglan partner gyud, top and bottom.

Anonymous said...

i can say i am pure top.. never tried being bottom. i always play the role being top and all bottom gays i've fuck wanted to do it again.. yes, i always get a compliment that i'm a gentle fucker but a wild tiger when triggered. try me!

DiscreetBai said...

Sometimes the designation of being top, bottom or versatile can be a bit complicated. Some are exclusive top, exclusive bottom, versatile-top, versatile-bottom. When you say versatile-top, a guy who usually does the top position but can also do bottom when needed. The same way with versatile-bottom. Libog? hehehehehe

Anonymous said...

sayon ra man na sabton.. ang top ang galubot og dili gatuwad,, ang bottom mao ang lubton.. kung versa ka, pwd ka lubton o pwd pud kang manglubot.. ana ra..-khel

Anonymous said...

great,! can i try ? hehehe

Anonymous said...

try ka pa bottom? hehehehe

ej said...

Ever wonder if that cute, hunky, simple, tall guy with you in a public jeepney, inside the MRT or LRT is a bi or gay?

Are you tired of the old fasion way of just staring in the eye of one another but not really getting any clear anwers to whom youre having eye contact with until it was too late and you just say,, "sayang!! ang cute pa nmn nya!!" and you just watch this person as you both part ways and then there is still this "nakaw tingin" but you are just too afraid to approach, not knowing that the guy was also interested in you?

Well its about time to do something about it!! this flirt signs can be done in public with no hassels AT ALL. no fear of having all the non-third sexes figure out it was actually a flirtatious act..


so lets get started.. lets say, you are in any public means of tranportation, say MRT, LRT, JEEP, FX or even in a private car. and you came across with this hot-looking guy that you cant even sense if he is bi, gay or straight, and you are interested with this person and so is the person is to you.. this is why we all need this to silently communicated and flirt...here is the flirt signs 101.

HOLD YOUR NOSE with one hand like wiping out oil shows your interest to a person.

HOLD YOUR CHIN as if checking all the unshaved beard shows you are interested back to the person.

PINCHING your left ear with one hand means you wanna know if the person is bi or gay.

if you are BI, you just need to LICK OR WET YOUR LIPS while looking at the person.

if you are GAY, you will need to WIPE YOUR EYES like you are wiping out eye dirts.

TOUCH YOUR HEAD, if you wanna know if the person is TOP or bottom, the same thing should be done if you are TOP.

REACH YOUR POCKET (your behind pocket) as if you're reaching for your wallet if you are a bottom.


Now lets say you both understood each other but you didnt know whether the person wants to meet or wait outside of where you both are,, Just RUB YOUR HANDS TOGETHER as if you just put some alcogel on them means lets meet outside. then if the person rubs his hands together too, thats it!! you just caught a big fish out of a small pond.. hahaha

But of course if the person doesnt respond to any of these,, it only means two things

1. He is not yet familiar with this new flirt sign language
2. Or worst,, that cute guy you wanna take with you is a STRAIGHT!!

let's have it applied..

a guy takes the MRT to AYALA makati, and he could see from a distance a nice hunk and a goodlooking smooth guy. he just couldnt take his eyes off this hunk. The hunk happens to look at him for a while.Then Flirt 101 takes place.

little guy looks at the hunk stud and slowly wipes his nose till the hunk notices it..
Hunk stud sees it and held down his chin like he just shaved telling the little guy that he is interested.. then the magic spark sets off..
little guy wanna know if the hunk is bi or gay by pinching his left ear with one hand
Hunk wets his lips very daringly and unexpectedly reached his pocket like reaching for his wallet.
Little guy was in red shock and was one big boner inside the train when he finds out the hunk stud is a bottom bi (ampota pati ako titigasan dun). so he didnt wanna pass the opportunity..

although he is bottom, he touched his head and acted appropriately telling the hunk stud that he is a top..
(cno ba nmn ang hndi mgta top sa ganun, wow!!)

so the little guy rubs his hands together and the hunk stud didnt need to respond anymore so he waited outside and whoala!!!! Nag check in ang dalawa sa sogo!! san ka pa!!

SO THAT WAS IT.. IF YOU DONT WANNA PLAY THE SAME BORING GAME THAT WE ALL SEEM TO PUT UP EVERYTIME COME ACROSS WITH THIS SITUATION..

Anonymous said...

ngano sakit man magpalubot?

Anonymous said...

yes, the sex videos make it seem so easily and pleasurable but it's so painful actually. Can anyone share any tips how to enjoy it?

Anonymous said...

sakit mo pa. imagine nalang suksukan ug tubo nga dako ang buslot sa imong ilong...di ba sakit? hahahahaha

DiscreetBai said...

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http://www.discreetbai.com/p/oral-sex.html
http://www.discreetbai.com/p/condom-use_24.html

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jay said...

knsay gay dha nga pwde mgtop? gus2 ko mgtry mgpabottom.. hahaha.. straight guy ko..

Anonymous said...

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-charles

jay said...

sure? unsa # nmo? txt tka.. globe or tm lng..

Anonymous said...

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allen said...

top here. looking for bottom. anyone?

Anonymous said...

i just had anal sex and i noticed nga naay blood.mao pud na akong observation specially if ang size sa ga fuck sa akoa is tambok, dako ug kana pung dili gani maayo ang pagkasulod sa pirmiro nga attempt. normal lang na ang blood stain?gamay lang noon xa peru ayha ra pud naa kung dako, tambok,ug d maau ang pagkasulod sa pirmiro nga attempt...hehehe...

Anonymous said...

i used to be a bottom but wen my partner asked me to fuck him, i tried.lami man d i pud, kapoy lang.hehehe.labi na ug makita nimo ang facial expression nya nga gakasakitan kada doot nimo.hehehe

DiscreetBai said...

During anal sex especially kung mas dako ang mo sulod nimo, masamad gamay ang imong lubot. Normal na kana especially dili ka anad ug dako ug tambok. That is why the use of condom is advised. Mu gamit gyud ug condom kay dinha sa mga samad samad mo agi ang sakit. Sometimes you do not even notice nga nasamdan kana. Play it safe, grabe na ka taas ang HIV cases dinhi CDO.

DiscreetBai said...

Actually to be a top, you have to be more physical compared to the bottom. Ang bottom, mo higda raman most of the time, just waiting for the top to do his job. However there are some cases that the bottom does more work than the top. They are usually called the Power Bottom kay grabe gyud mo lihok. Ang bottom na maoy ga control sa movements.

Anonymous said...

i wanted to try being the top..i always been at the bottom kasi...juicy bubble ass, 23 years old, not hardworking...

Anonymous said...

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Anonymous said...

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such a nice bottom! cute, slim,swak na swak! hu-ot2x pa jud! pero dli basta2x gsugot! mao hu-ot pa iya kay dli over use! Lu-oy lng kay murag kahilakon kung paspason!

allen said...

where you from?

Anonymous said...

i had sex with this top guy before. i would say he is a good top, tall cya, 5'9 or 5'10 man cguro, athletic body, ga work out cya dha sa ketkai dapit and permi nako cya makita sa palaro and ga dagan pod cya sa road ug mga marathon. dugay pa gyud gawasan, nag cum nako while he is pumping me pero wala pa cya nagawasan, hapdos na kaayo akong butt so naluoy cya and he pulled it out and jacked off nalang in front of me while hangyo cya na i-suck nako iya nipples. when you look at him, mura cyag suplado, dili cya ga tagad in public and his set of friends are straight. i think he is bi siguro kay makita man nako cya intimate pod with other girls, ang nakit-an nako cya several times nag check-in with a girl, not unless callboy cya? pero wala man cya nangayo ug kwarta sa ako after we meet & fuck. pero when you're in private kay tabian pod cya, intellectual pod kay daghan man different topics iyang ma tackle. pero medyo tamili pod cya ug ka sex, kay dili daw cya ganahan putot, i'm 5'8, mayo naka pasa. kay 5'7 below daw kay dili cya not unless really hot kuno. pero gi satisfy gyud ko niya, two rounds mi, second round kay gi mouth fuck napod ko niya and he asked kung he could cum in my mouth, i could not resist pero ako napod gi luwa after, pero naay sweet aftertaste iya cum and considering nga second round na pero daghan gyapon iya tulos. i hope na maka fuck mi utro... i lost his number man gud.

Anonymous said...

dako jud cguro nang imoha ky kahilakon mn jud xa. hehehe mkatry pd unta ko ana unsai feeling. hehe wla pko ktry mgbottom. just curious and i want to try. hehe

Anonymous said...

kinsa na xa? hhehehe ako 5'9 man ko ug guapo sad ko pde ra?

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Anonymous said...

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Anonymous said...

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Anonymous said...

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Anonymous said...

Virgo20 said ..


Ka-busy ba jud anang sex ui? Could you divert your attention instead of thinking stupids acts?

Well, SEX is FUN but FUN is DANGEROUS ...

You might know na, kanang ka sex ninyo ja... Naa nman diay nxai sakit ...

Beware lang. Be mature enough dili kay padala sa uwag! :)

Anonymous said...

Just call me VIRGO-


I love to experience again what I have experienced before but then again, I can't. Inasmuch as I wanted to, I really cannot do it again. Not that I'm sacred, or shy but, in such reasons that I need to change everything and learn to moved on.

Yeah, it's fun, delicious and full of excitements. But, remember, shame builds...after you done it. maybe, he/she will never tell anyone about the doings pero, sa imong self. Ulaw! Yeah, dili xa nmu ma consider as ulaw coz immune nmn ka ana nga binuhatan. Pero as you go along, then you'll realized na, it brought you into a mistaken decision.. :)
And fin'lly you'll regret it :)


Share lang ko sa mga taong galantaw pa sa ilang future. Just be mature lang in many ways. Sometimes, when you enter and started the fantasy- you'll forget the things you have promise sa imong self or unsa pa dha , and after you done it. mag regret daun ka :)

Share lang.

Anonymous said...

Walay straight guy nga mapatig sex ug kapwa lalake nga walay kapalit. Mga in denial ra na sila.

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DiscreetBai said...

Dominic, it is painful that's for sure. Require the top to USE A CONDOM. Never allow anyone to penetrate you if they do not wear a condom. Just read the blog article about Anal Sex and Condom Use. And by the way, start small so it wont be that painful....hehehehehe

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Anonymous said...

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Anonymous said...

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Anonymous said...

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Anonymous said...

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DiscreetBai said...

If you are curious about anal sex please check the blog article about it at http://www.discreetbai.com/p/sex.html

Also read about proper use of condom. Always use condoms when having anal sex.

Do not be embarrassed when you buy a condom.

Anonymous said...

Hi still 18 yrs old. Im bi. And bottom im still a virgin. Im looking for a top. Gusto kog older and taller akomg height is 5'9 but ok na bisag kinsa maka try lng ko hahaha
-ren
Give me your num tm or globe plzz haha

Anonymous said...

Hi. Im still a virgin and i really wanna try.. i can say im a pure bottom. Im looking for a top and if possible taller or same height and older sko. Im still 18 pwedi na uy legal na hahahaha 5'9 man guro ako height. Hahaha hoping to try as soon as possible wahahaha XD reply ur num nlng plz.. knang pure top ha. Hahaha #demandin! XD

DiscreetBai said...

Merry Christmas! If you want to bottom especially if its your first time, you have to make preparations. Try reading on anal sex.

http://www.discreetbai.com/p/sex.html

Never forget to tell the top to use a condom and waterbased lubricant. Do not use regular oil or lotion. This is for both your protection. HIV AIDS and other sexually transmitted diseases are now rampant in CDO.

Make sure you choose a patient and considerate top guy. Bottoming for the first time can be a struggle. Some tops are aggressive and impatient. For first time bottoms, you can start fingering yourself. if you have sex toys, the better. make sure your fingernails are trimmed and short. and choose a top with an average or smaller dick.

V said...

Hi just want to share my experience to you guys

I have txtmate for almost a month way back nov. 2012 (kadumdum pa gyud ko haha) bsan unsa rman to among topic. take note we've not been see each other until one day nanghanggat sya ug sex. At first i was really hesitant because its my first time to do it. Minor age pa pud ko ato hahahaha and confuse pko unsa ang bottom and top. So he asked me that and i just said that any of those. So thats it we did it honestly i was really shy because that was the first time i saw him ok rman iyang face but the height really bothers me haha he was 5'4 or 5'5 but me i was 5'9 so murag kato storya2 mi then nag palit na dayun sya ug condom then we fuck. Ako aligaga pakay ko ato kay wa pko kbalo unsay buhaton pero sya kabalo gyud sya. tas 1st time pud nko mag oral sex. Ingun sya na sagyad daw sa akong ngipon hahaha (nagkatawa ko ato). But then after it ok lng pero guys sakit mag pa bottom hehe. Mao to that was my first and last sex with a guy and wla na dayon nasun.dan until now. hehe but sugod btaw ato cge na daun ko masturbate ok ra kaha na? Gka imagine man gud nko to permente hehe

as much as i wanted gusto ko mag bf utro but mahadlok gyud ko kay wla pman gud kbalo ako mga family ug friends ani. So kato. Hehe
- v 21 yrs. Old from patag :)

V said...

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