384 HIV cases recorded in November 2013

According to the United Nations, the Philippines is amongst the 9 countries in the world where HIV AIDS cases are increasing.

In Cagayan de Oro alone, we already have 88 cases in 2013.  In 2008 it started with 6 cases, 2009 at 9 cases, 2010 at 14 cases, 2011 at 27 cases and last year 2012 at 52 cases.  This is just the reported cases.  Some might already have the infection but does not know it.

http://anc.yahoo.com/news/doh--384-hiv-cases-recorded-in-november-090312192.html

UK pardons the gay "Father of Computing"

British mathematician Alan Turing was considered as the "Father of Modern Computing".  He was responsible for the breaking of the World War 2 German "Enigma" code that eventually hastened the end of the war against Germany.

He was sentenced in 1952 for homosexual acts which was a criminal offense in the UK until 1967.  2 years later he allegedly committed suicide.

He was recently given a posthumous pardon by Queen Elizabeth II.

http://www.rappler.com/world/regions/europe/46537-britain-pardons-gay-father-of-computing-alan-turing

Short Film : Workout Buddies : A Bro Love Story

This gave me a smile.  Happy Holidays to all!

Webcam : Twink Pinoy long dick

This Filipino guy was masturbating on webcam.  Showing off his twink body and cumming on his tablet.  Enjoy!

DISCLAIMER : DiscreetBai does not make any claims or suggestions to the sexual orientation or preference of the person or people involved in the video. 

Please practice safe sex!  Be responsible for yourself and others!

This video is for entertainment purposes only and should never be imitated.  Actors in this video undergo physical preparation (anal cleaning, HIV testing and others).

Please read more information about HIV AIDS and safe sex!

http://www.discreetbai.com/p/hiv-aids.html

http://www.discreetbai.com/p/condom-use_24.html

http://www.discreetbai.com/p/oral-sex.html

Tips to avoid getting robbed in Cagayan de Oro

There have been incidents of robbery or fraud in Cagayan de Oro involving gay people.

To avoid getting swindled or robbed, here are some advise or tips to follow :

1. When meeting someone online, check their Facebook account or if not see each other through webcam. Today, most people have Facebook or webcams, so if that person does not have one, that is a warning sign.

2. If the person you meet online wants to meet with you immediately in your hotel room or apartment, that is a warning sign. Meet this person first in a public area or through webcam. If you do not like the person you are meeting, you can make an excuse and leave the place or simply turn off the webcam.

3. If you bring these strangers to your hotel room or apartment/home, make sure the hotel has a CCTV camera and the guy should register or surrender an ID to the hotel receptionist. Better yet, leave your valuables with the hotel receptionist for safe keeping and instruct them never to give it to anyone except you. Take a photo of the guy using your phone and send it to friends. If at home, make sure someone is at home to assist you in case of emergencies.

4. Gay swindlers are now in social networking sites. If the profile photo is not the same with the actual person you meet, that is a warning sign. Make an excuse and leave immediately. Do not anymore entertain them.

5. If someone asks you for a night out with his so called "friends and cousins", that is a warning sign. You might end up paying all of the drinks and even more. Sometimes you go out in a date, only to find out that his "cousin" will join you later. If this happens, make an excuse and leave! These swindlers sometimes operate in pairs or groups.

6. When in a motel, if the guy insists that you take a shower first, this is a warning sign. This is an opportunity for these swindlers to take your belongings and even your clothes. If you shower, take your clothes with you inside the bathroom and lock the door.

7. If you meet someone new and that guy wants to have sex with you, ask that person, are you a call boy? Some of these guys would not tell you that they are call boys. After sex they would suddenly ask money from you, even though you have not talked about it.

8. If a gay swindler threatens you that he will create a scene or "mag eskandalo" if you do not give your belongings, you should reply....GO AHEAD! PAG ESKANDALO. These swindlers are just bluffing. They do not really want to create a scene or else they will get involved in it and their identity exposed.

9. Beware of "masseurs" advertising their massage services online. There have been complaints of theft and swindling. It is best to get recommendations from friends or a reliable website.

10. Cagayan de Oro has a high HIV AIDS infection rate in Northern Mindanao. Every year infection rate in the city doubles (100% increase). You should not only be concerned about your physical safety when dealing with these call boys but your health as well.

Share this with friends! If you have been a victim of these swindlers, REPORT them to the Police!

Merry Christmas!

Merry Christmas to everyone!  Thank you for supporting DiscreetBai.com

Tweet joke gone bad

Always be careful what you post online.  Former PR executive Justine Sacco is now embroiled in a controversy for tweeting a joke about AIDS and being white before she boarded a plane to Africa.


"Going to Africa. Hope I don't get AIDS. Just kidding. I'm white!" read Sacco's infamous tweet, posted late Friday as she boarded an 11-hour flight to South Africa.

http://www.rappler.com/life-and-style/technology/46453-twitter-justine-sacco

SEA Games Medalist Jason Balabal

Jason Balabal made headlines recently as the Philippines flag bearer of the SEA Games opening ceremony in Myanmar.  As a native Ifugao, he proudly wore the Ifugao tribal wear including the "bahag".

Jason Balabal is a wrestling gold medalist.  I featured Jason Balabal a year ago? in this blog but I never knew he also modeled for an underwear brand.

Short Film : Trunks

Steve knows he's straight but under the water at his local swimming pool, he feels gay. Will he tell his ex-girlfriend the entire truth and what does he dream of?  By the way, dont be confused.  He is narrating the story of what happened to him in the pool.

Video : Straight Porn

I am not quite sure if this is an experimental independent film or simply a porn film.  This is a straight porn so gays be warned :)

DISCLAIMER : DiscreetBai does not make any claims or suggestions to the sexual orientation or preference of the person or people involved in the video. 

Please practice safe sex!  Be responsible for yourself and others!

This video is for entertainment purposes only and should never be imitated.  Actors in this video undergo physical preparation (anal cleaning, HIV testing and others).

Please read more information about HIV AIDS and safe sex!

http://www.discreetbai.com/p/hiv-aids.html

http://www.discreetbai.com/p/condom-use_24.html

http://www.discreetbai.com/p/oral-sex.html

Boarding house thief and swindler in CDO arrested.

Photo provided last 2011 by his victims

Someone posted in DiscreetBai forum about a certain swindler named Jaypee L. Oca.  I immediately recognized him as the same guy who victimized occupants of boarding houses in Cagayan de Oro 2 years ago.  It was reported in the local ABS-CBN.  He used the name Julian Perry Oga.  His victims already filed a complain at Police Station No. 9 in Macasandig.  It is best that these two Police Stations (No. 1 and No. 9) coordinate with each other.  Check out this link
http://www.discreetbai.com/2011/09/boarding-house-swindler.html

This only shows that IF YOU REPORT these swindlers to the POLICE, they will be arrested and put a stop to their swindling activities in Cagayan de Oro!

To Loi23alian, thank you for sharing this information.  I hope this will encourage more people to report swindlers to the police.

Here is the link to the DiscreetBai Forum post by Loi23alian
http://www.discreetbai.com/p/forum.html#/20131119/modus-and-swindler-3404722/

 
Social networking sites are very helpful to us nowadays. In these sites we meet a lot of people of our interests. Friendship, relationship, hook-ups, and etc are some of the interests we seek in these sites. Now, everyone has heard of the site www.planetromeo.com, right? This is a social-networking site for us, gays/bisexuals. We could meet a lot of people from this site as we all know.
Now, as I am an avid user of this site, I get to log-in everyday and run through lists of online netizens. One sunday night, November 10, 2013, I received message from a username "singledad_28" with a "Hi." as usual way of starting a conversation. As I read the message, I replied to this man, and that started our long conversation. He gave me a not clear picture of him and his son then he asked for my cellular phone number, so I gave it to him. He called me right after I gave him my digits. We talked over the phone and discussed his son. The night had gone deeper and he told me that he's sleepy then ended the call.
In the morrow, he called me early an asked me if we could meet somewhere in the city, he preferred if it's in the mall. I accepted his invitation and told him that we could meet inside the premises of Limketkai Mall and he agreed to this. Late in the afternoon at around 5pm, we met at Starbucks Coffee and proceeded to Shakey's inside Limketkai Mall. He treated me something to eat and a tea. He told me his name was "Zach" and I told mine too. We talked about his son and his family background, and so I told him about mine also. As we were talking, two customers went inside the establishment we were in, and Zach coincidently had a stomachache and immediately stood up and went outside the parlor and headed to Mercury Drug Store. 10 minutes later, I contacted Zach and asked him if he will be coming back then he called me on my phone and told me he's buying medicine for his stomachache. Over the phone he asked me if I knew the persons who got inside Shakey's Parlor and I told him "no". He said he might be taking so long so he asked me if I could pay the bill for what we ordered, I checked my wallet and told him that my money isn't enough, knowing this he asked me if I could hand over my phone to the waiter so that he could give instructions to the waiter. The instruction was simple, the waiter will go to the Mercury Drug Store to get the payment and return immediately so that I could come over where he was. So I came over to him and we strolled around the mall. While strolling, he told me his wallet was snatched from him at Cogon market. He worried for his identification cards because the grandmother of his son (his mother-in-law) will be sending him money for his son. But the problem was he can't get the money because he had no ID to present in the money remittance center. He asked me a favor if he could use my ID and I said "yes" the he told me that in return he will give me a partial of the money he will be receiving, I declined to this but he insisted so I had nothing more to say. As I looked inside my wallet, I told him I forgot to bring my ID, then he asked me if we could go back to my house and get my ID then back again in the city to get the money. We rode in a taxi cab forth to our house then back again to the city. We got back in the city and stayed inside Missy Bonbon. He sent my name and address to his mother-in-law and we waited for the control number. The night became weary and my mom called me, she was worried with me, I got anxious and worried too and told Zach if I could go home now. He was a bit worried too and apologized to me because he got me in to trouble, so he told me to go home and gave me money for the cab fare. And about the money, he'll just ask his son's grandma to send it tomorrow in the afternoon because I promised him that I will meet him again by tomorrow.
In the morning, I woke up by the ringing sound of my phone, it was Zach who called me, he told me that his son got bored and was crying and he and his son's yaya can't do something to ease the child. He said his son wanted to watch action movies, so he asked me if I could bring a portable DVD player in the hotel where they're staying so that his son could watch movies. I said to him that we don't have that kind of DVD player, instead we have laptop and maybe I could bring it. So all was set, I will meet them in the afternoon inside Parkview Hotel. I was glad because I will be meeting his son. Afternoon has come so I decided to go before the rain comes pouring. As I got near Parkview Hotel, he told me his son is still sleeping so maybe we could go somewhere else where we can drink coffee, he told me Brew Berry Cafe would be perfect since he like the ambiance of the place. Then we went to the cafe and talked a lot. He treated me to a coffee drink. He asked me if I could show him the movies I prepared for his son. I pulled over my laptop and put it on the table. He told me that since we're also waiting for the money and for his son to wake up, we could search on the internet some gadgets selling online because he wanted to buy. I asked him why since he already have an iPhone, and a blackberry phone. He told me he is planning to give it to me. I told him that it doesn't matter because I already have a smartphone and an iPod to use and I am already contented with what I have but he insisted and told me that he feel so guilty and his conscience is engraving him because he got me in to trouble last night and asked me hassle favors. So I didn't insist anymore and changed the topic. While we were have conversations he tend to go inside the comfort room leaving his things in front of me. So I thought that he's really trusting me. I noticed that he'd already went inside of the comfort room several times so I asked him if there's something wrong. He told me that it is his stomachache causing him to go inside the CR for a couple of times. So I told him that he should buy medicine outside, he thought over about my suggestion and he told me that if it gets worse he will buy medicine. Minutes later, he went again inside the CR and as he got back, he told me if I could buy him medicine. Without hesitation and with the complete trust, I told him to look over my things while I buy him medicine. So I left the cafe and buy the medicine for his stomachache. As I got back to the establishment where I left Zach, he was nowhere to be found. I searched inside the CR and asked the waiters and the owner of the cafe if they saw the man who was with me the while time we were in the cafe but they said they didn't know where the man went but they saw the man left a minute after I left to buy medicine. I was in total shock and as if the energy inside me was totally drained as soon as I realized Zach has my belongings, my laptop, my wallet, my bag, my iPod 4th Gen, and my 500gb external hard drive.
I immediately went to the nearest police station and asked for their help, they interrogated me and I was compelled to tell them the whole story. I texted Zach in hope that he would reply to my messages. After several messages I sent to him, he replied to me, "Hala! Oh my!". I told the police that he replied to me and the officers motivated me to keep in contact with the suspect. I told Zach I would give to him anything just to retrieve my laptop because I have some important files in their. He told me, "I'm sorry. I just need the money po talaga.". I asked him to call me so that we could have a proper conversation, so he called me and told me that he will give me my laptop if I will give him money worth 10,000php. So I accepted his offer. I told the officers about this and they prepared themselves for an entrapment operation. Zach told me that we will meet inside Centrio Mall specifically inside J.Co Donuts. I knew the chance of this operation was 10% only but I never had allowed myself to lose hope. Zach called me on my phone and told me it would be better if I'd go inside the Mall first. So the cops and I went to the said mall and they told me the plan while we were in the Police Patrol Car. We arrived outside the mall and I headed immediately to J.Co Donuts establishment. I texted Zach that I am already in the place, he told me that the plan has changed, we will meet outside the Mall, I will hand him over the money and he will give me my things. And again, I reminded myself that the chance of this operation is only 10% so I prayed to God that this operation may be successful. I told him that I am going outside the mall and he told me he's riding a taxi cab and he'll just call me as soon as he arrives. The moment I stepped outside the premises of the mall, I saw a cab slowing down and I guessed it could be Zach. I went on the other side of the road and took a look inside the car from a distant. I confirmed to the police that it was Zach sitting on the front seat. I ran to the cab and stood on front of it so that it will go nowhere. The police noticed mu actions and they knew it was the cue. They went after me and told the driver to open the door and that they are cops. The driver did what he was told to do then the cops arrested Zach, the theft.
We proceeded immediately to the police station for further investigation and interrogation. Medias came over the station, ABS-CBN and GMA News. They interviewed me about what really happened and I told him the whole story.
After an hour, a complainant came over the police station and confirmed that it was Zach who took his things, iPhone 4S, watch worth 10,000php, and wallet with money worth 1,500 and identification cards in it. I recognized the complainant because he was the man I saw inside Shakey's Pizza Parlor. I then realized that it was the man the reason why Zach left the parlor hastily. The complainant told me his story and I discovered we experienced almost the same modus.
Now, I have retrieved all my belongings that were taken away from me by Jaypee "Zach" Luba Oca. Beware of this man. If you are also a victim of this fraud, file a complain in the police station 1 at DV Soria, Cagayan de Oro City.

Ms. International 2013 is Philippines!

Congrats to Bea Rose Santiago for being crowned as Ms. International 2013!   We are proud of you!  Long hair ng mga Pinay beauties ngayon! :)

http://www.rappler.com/life-and-style/46111-miss-international-2013

Photo from Rappler.com

 

Does age really matter?

In love, does age really matter?  News surfaced recently that 19 year old olympic swimmer Tom Daley was dating a more mature guy who is 20 years his senior.  Some say he could be Tom Daley's father.

According to Daley, he has never felt so loved and secured in his entire life.  Well, daddy knows best?

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/michelangelo-signorile/tom-daley-is-20-years-younger-than-dustin-lance-black-so-what_b_4397666.html?utm_hp_ref=gay-voices

Remembering Sendong

We remember those who perished in this tragic natural disaster. 

May we learn from this tragedy and not forget those who are still missing.

IRR of the School Anti-Bullying Law passed

Finally, Filipino LGBT's in schools will be protect from bullying.  The implementing rules and regulations of the School Anti-Bullying Law has been passed recently.  Protection includes bullying by text and social media.

In high school I really had a difficult time expressing myself because of my classmates.  I never really enjoyed high school.  It sucked!  Every time there is a high school reunion, I avoid it.  It is not worth my time.

In college though it was a different experience for me.  My classmates basically knew who I was and they did not really mind whether I was gay or not.  There were a few who tried to bully me but most of my friends and classmates were kind and understanding enough that I felt I was loved and respected.

When going to college choose a school that is more accepting of homosexuality.  Some schools especially Catholic schools can be problematic and feeds on homophobia.  If you plan to go to college, make sure you go to a secular or non-religious school like UP.  And of course, choose friends wisely both straight and gay.  Your friends can help you through tough times in College.

http://anc.yahoo.com/video/deped-sets-irr-ant-bullying-073045370.html


 

Short Film : El Inicio (The Beginning)

Gringo and Rafa are two friends who are going through adolescence.  One hot summer afternoon they spend time together enjoying the countryside.  However, in one of their innocent games something happened unexpectedly.  Would this be the beginning of a blossoming friendship? or the beginning of the end of their friendship?

Video : Black Teen Jerk Off

This black teen guy jerks off and cums......Enjoy!

DISCLAIMER : DiscreetBai does not make any claims or suggestions to the sexual orientation or preference of the person or people involved in the video. 

Please practice safe sex!  Be responsible for yourself and others!

This video is for entertainment purposes only and should never be imitated.  Actors in this video undergo physical preparation (anal cleaning, HIV testing and others).

Please read more information about HIV AIDS and safe sex!

http://www.discreetbai.com/p/hiv-aids.html

http://www.discreetbai.com/p/condom-use_24.html

http://www.discreetbai.com/p/oral-sex.html

Pregnant groom weds in Argentina

The groom is born female and is now a male transsexual.  The bride is born a male who became a female transsexual.  Both did not removed their original gender reproductive system.  

Reading this article I got confused.  Is it possible for a transsexual male and female to fall in love with each other?

Since both the bride and the groom are technically of the opposite sex, would this constitute as a same-sex marriage or a traditional heterosexual marriage?  Would the Catholic Church agree to marry the couple in the Church since both are of the opposite sex?  

More questions than answers.


http://www.abs-cbnnews.com/lifestyle/11/30/13/argentina-pregnant-groom-weds-legal-first

Gay urinal

The gayest urinal you will ever find.  And don't tell me you are tempted to sit on it?

Nude pictorial is a plantation farm

I am not sure but I think this is a tea plantation.  Want some tea-tea?

US Embassy in Manila issues first 'fiance visa' to same-sex couple

This is good news for Filipinos who are married to their American partners.

From the Philippine Embassy website in the United States :

"On December 2, 2013, the United States Embassy in the Philippines issued its first fiancé visa to a same-sex couple. Although same-sex marriage is not yet recognized in the Philippines, gay Americans are now able to petition for family-based visas on behalf of their Filipino spouses, fiancés, and their children."

http://manila.usembassy.gov/first-visa-issued-same-sex-couple-manila.html 

Video : Pick up truck vintage porn

Vintage gay porn.  A hot guy in a ponytail.  Enjoy!

DISCLAIMER : DiscreetBai does not make any claims or suggestions to the sexual orientation or preference of the person or people involved in the video. 

Please practice safe sex!  Be responsible for yourself and others!

This video is for entertainment purposes only and should never be imitated.  Actors in this video undergo physical preparation (anal cleaning, HIV testing and others).

Please read more information about HIV AIDS and safe sex!

http://www.discreetbai.com/p/hiv-aids.html

http://www.discreetbai.com/p/condom-use_24.html

http://www.discreetbai.com/p/oral-sex.html

Grey Hu featured in SunStar CDO

Grey Hu (not his real name) is HIV positive and is currently living in Cagayan de Oro.  He shares his life story in SunStar Daily hoping that others can find solace that they are not alone in the fight against HIV AIDS.

Click on the link for the full article

http://www.sunstar.com.ph/cagayan-de-oro/feature/2013/12/01/positive-embraces-life-316519

Avoid getting robbed in Cagayan de Oro

There have been incidents of robbery or fraud in Cagayan de Oro involving gay people.

To avoid getting swindled or robbed, here are some advise or tips to follow :

1. When meeting someone online, check their Facebook account or if not see each other through webcam. Today, most people have Facebook or webcams, so if that person does not have one, that is a warning sign.

2. If the person you meet online wants to meet with you immediately in your hotel room or apartment, that is a warning sign. Meet this person first in a public area or through webcam. If you do not like the person you are meeting, you can make an excuse and leave the place or simply turn off the webcam.

3. If you bring these strangers to your hotel room or apartment/home, make sure the hotel has a CCTV camera and the guy should register or surrender an ID to the hotel receptionist. Better yet, leave your valuables with the hotel receptionist for safe keeping and instruct them never to give it to anyone except you. Take a photo of the guy using your phone and send it to friends. If at home, make sure someone is at home to assist you in case of emergencies.

4. Gay swindlers are now in social networking sites. If the profile photo is not the same with the actual person you meet, that is a warning sign. Make an excuse and leave immediately. Do not anymore entertain them.

5. If someone asks you for a night out with his so called "friends and cousins", that is a warning sign. You might end up paying all of the drinks and even more. Sometimes you go out in a date, only to find out that his "cousin" will join you later. If this happens, make an excuse and leave! These swindlers sometimes operate in pairs or groups.

6. When in a motel, if the guy insists that you take a shower first, this is a warning sign. This is an opportunity for these swindlers to take your belongings and even your clothes. If you shower, take your clothes with you inside the bathroom and lock the door.

7. If you meet someone new and that guy wants to have sex with you, ask that person, are you a call boy? Some of these guys would not tell you that they are call boys. After sex they would suddenly ask money from you, even though you have not talked about it.

8. If a gay swindler threatens you that he will create a scene or "mag eskandalo" if you do not give your belongings, you should reply....GO AHEAD! PAG ESKANDALO. These swindlers are just bluffing. They do not really want to create a scene or else they will get involved in it and their identity exposed.

9. Beware of "masseurs" advertising their massage services online. There have been complaints of theft and swindling. It is best to get recommendations from friends or a reliable website.

10. Cagayan de Oro has a high HIV AIDS infection rate in Northern Mindanao. Every year infection rate in the city doubles (100% increase). You should not only be concerned about your physical safety when dealing with these call boys but your health as well.

Share this with friends! If you have been a victim of these swindlers, REPORT them to the Police!

Maalaala Mo Kaya - Pulang Laso (AIDS)

A story of a gay couple dealing with the challenges of HIV AIDS.

Tom Daley admits he is bisexual

The British swimming olympian Tom Daley recently admitted that he is in a relationship with a guy but still fancies girls.  Bisexual?  Wow, never expected that.   I already featured him in the blog a year or 2 years ago. 

I wish Tom the best and I hope he finds what he is looking for.

View his YouTube confessional.

http://www.rappler.com/sports/world/45122-uk-tom-daley-reveals-gay-relationship

http://www.policymic.com/articles/13165/tom-daley-gay-rumors-diver-seeks-fashion-advice-from-one-direction-harry-styles

Christmas Season is here!

Paul Walker dies in a car accident

Paul Walker known for his role in "Fast and the Furious" died in a car crash today.  This was confirmed by his manager through TMZ.

As a fan of "Fast and the Furious" it really saddens me.  They are currently filming the 7th squeal to the movie.  Goodbye Paul.  We will miss you.

World AIDS Day

The 2013 theme for World AIDS Day is "Getting to Zero." Zero New HIV Infections, Zero Discrimination and Zero AIDS Related Deaths.

As I keep on emphasizing, we have to be responsible for ourselves and for others so that we won't spread the disease.  IF we do not do anything today, the next generation will suffer.

Be responsible for yourself and for others!  Use a CONDOM!  Avoid multiple partners!  Get yourself tested! Free testing is available in the Northern Mindanao Medical Center or popularly known as the Provincial Hospital.