How to flirt in a bar

Here's how to flirt and get a guy's attention in a bar or a crowded area:

1.  Make contact
Position yourself near or in front of the person where you can make eye contact.  Try to connect with him through your eyes.

2.  Keep your glance
Once you locked eyes with him, keep your glance for a few seconds.  Do not stare at him.  Your not in a staring contest but your flirting.

3.  Drop the eyes
After glancing for a few seconds, gently move your glance elsewhere like you saw something else.  Then shift your eyes back to him, making eye contact.  If he is still glancing at you, give him a soft smile.

4.  Make a move
At this point the guy knows you are interesting in him.  If he is interested with you, he will connect with your glances and smile back or both.  Time to make your move and seal the deal.

5.  Seal the deal
The guy will eventually get tired of glancing and smiling from a distance.  Make your move and say hello to the person.

Article taken from gaylife.about.com


Here is also a YouTube video by wickdkewl on gay flirting

LGBT welcome at Sochi Olympics?

Russia has been criticized for its discriminatory attitude towards the LGBT community.  There have been calls by gay athletes to boycott the Winter Olympics in Sochi, Russia.

President Putin of Russia recently invited the LGBT community to the Sochi Olympics as a way to diffuse criticism over Russias harsh policy against the LGBT community.
  
http://www.abs-cbnnews.com/sports/10/29/13/gay-people-welcome-sochi-olympics-says-putin

Barangay Elections 2013

Do not forget to go out and vote on October 28, Monday.  Even if its the Barangay elections, your vote is important.

To check your voting precinct, go to COMELEC website at http://www.comelec.gov.ph/?r=precinct_finder 

 
 

Video : Webcam guy showering

Guy showering for a web cam audience.  No cum shots.

DISCLAIMER : DiscreetBai does not make any claims or suggestions to the sexual orientation or preference of the person or people involved in the video. 

Please practice safe sex!  Be responsible for yourself and others!

This video is for entertainment purposes only and should never be imitated.  Actors in this video undergo physical preparation (anal cleaning, HIV testing and others).

Please read more information about HIV AIDS and safe sex!

http://www.discreetbai.com/p/hiv-aids.html

http://www.discreetbai.com/p/condom-use_24.html

http://www.discreetbai.com/p/oral-sex.html

Philippines HIV AIDS law

In 1998 the AIDS Prevention and Control Act (the AIDS Law) or Republic Act 8504 was passed and, over the years, became a model of legislation for other countries. HIV cases in the country were then a trickle of numbers recorded in the HIV Registry, the government’s official data handled by the Department of Health – one new infection every 7 days, mostly female sex workers and male overseas contract workers.

Fifteen years hence, the epidemic has taken a different profile. The July 2013 HIV registry listed 449 new cases, 90% consisting of males who have sex with males (MSM). Populations of injecting drug users contribute a huge spike of infections. The DOH now reports a staggering one Filipino newly infected every hour.

http://www.rappler.com/nation/39636-aids-law-ph-hiv-epidemic

Avoid getting robbed in Cagayan de Oro

There have been incidents of robbery or fraud in Cagayan de Oro involving gay people.

To avoid getting swindled or robbed, here are some advise or tips to follow :

1. When meeting someone online, check their Facebook account or if not see each other through webcam. Today, most people have Facebook or webcams, so if that person does not have one, that is a warning sign.

2. If the person you meet online wants to meet with you immediately in your hotel room or apartment, that is a warning sign. Meet this person first in a public area or through webcam. If you do not like the person you are meeting, you can make an excuse and leave the place or simply turn off the webcam.

3. If you bring these strangers to your hotel room or apartment/home, make sure the hotel has a CCTV camera and the guy should register or surrender an ID to the hotel receptionist. Better yet, leave your valuables with the hotel receptionist for safe keeping and instruct them never to give it to anyone except you. Take a photo of the guy using your phone and send it to friends. If at home, make sure someone is at home to assist you in case of emergencies.

4. Gay swindlers are now in social networking sites. If the profile photo is not the same with the actual person you meet, that is a warning sign. Make an excuse and leave immediately. Do not anymore entertain them.

5. If someone asks you for a night out with his so called "friends and cousins", that is a warning sign. You might end up paying all of the drinks and even more. Sometimes you go out in a date, only to find out that his "cousin" will join you later. If this happens, make an excuse and leave! These swindlers sometimes operate in pairs or groups.

6. When in a motel, if the guy insists that you take a shower first, this is a warning sign. This is an opportunity for these swindlers to take your belongings and even your clothes. If you shower, take your clothes with you inside the bathroom and lock the door.

7. If you meet someone new and that guy wants to have sex with you, ask that person, are you a call boy? Some of these guys would not tell you that they are call boys. After sex they would suddenly ask money from you, even though you have not talked about it.

8. If a gay swindler threatens you that he will create a scene or "mag eskandalo" if you do not give your belongings, you should reply....GO AHEAD! PAG ESKANDALO. These swindlers are just bluffing. They do not really want to create a scene or else they will get involved in it and their identity exposed.

9. Beware of "masseurs" advertising their massage services online. There have been complaints of theft and swindling. It is best to get recommendations from friends or a reliable website.

10. Cagayan de Oro has a high HIV AIDS infection rate in Northern Mindanao. Every year infection rate in the city doubles (100% increase). You should not only be concerned about your physical safety when dealing with these call boys but your health as well.

Share this with friends! If you have been a victim of these swindlers, REPORT them to the Police!

New Jersey USA legalize gay marriage

New Jersey in the US becames the 14th state to legalize gay marriage.  Congrats to New Jersey and to the new same-sex couples!


http://www.gmanetwork.com/news/story/331859/news/world/gay-marriage-becomes-legal-in-new-jersey-as-gov-christie-drops-opposition

Orlando Cruz fails to win a major boxing title

Orlando Cruz the openly gay boxer failed in his bid to win a major title.  He was knocked down on the 6th round by his opponent, Orlando Salido.

http://news.yahoo.com/video/openly-gay-boxer-orlando-cruz-043423866.html

Video : Manila Exposed 3 Scene 6

Someone asked for Manila Exposed videos months ago.  Finally found it.  I hope everyone enjoys it.  Manila Exposed is a Filipino straight porn video which for me is the best so far.  And the guys....hot.....

DISCLAIMER : DiscreetBai does not make any claims or suggestions to the sexual orientation or preference of the person or people involved in the video. 

Please practice safe sex!  Be responsible for yourself and others!

This video is for entertainment purposes only and should never be imitated.  Actors in this video undergo physical preparation (anal cleaning, HIV testing and others).

Please read more information about HIV AIDS and safe sex!

http://www.discreetbai.com/p/hiv-aids.html

http://www.discreetbai.com/p/condom-use_24.html

http://www.discreetbai.com/p/oral-sex.html

Pray for Visayas

Yesterday, a 7.2 earthquake devastated the beautiful islands of Bohol and Cebu, damaging property and killing dozens of people.  The earthquake was felt as far as Masbate in the north and Davao in the south

Bohol being the epicenter of the earthquake suffered the most.  Centuries old churches destroyed and dozens of lives lost.

We pray for people of Cebu and Bohol that they may be safe and be able to rebuild their lives again.

Eid Al-Adha

Today is Eid Al-Adha, the Feast of the Sacrifice for the Muslim community.  Eid Mubarak to everyone.

Philippine company extends benefits to same-sex couples

The Manila office of Thomson Reuters has introduced a landmark company policy making domestic partners and same-sex partners eligible as dependents and beneficiaries for company benefits.

Thomson Reuters Manila recently introduced its "Domestic Partners Eligibility" policy, which supports employees’ domestic ("live-in") and same sex partnerships. 

http://www.abs-cbnnews.com/business/10/10/13/first-ph-company-extends-benefits-live-same-sex-partners

Openly gay boxer fights for a world title

Openly gay boxer Orlando Cruz is set to make history when he meets Siri Salido with the WBO featherweight title on the line.


http://ph.sports.yahoo.com/video/openly-gay-boxer-orlando-cruz-003155072.html

Video : Showing off on cam

This guy is so cute and adorable!  I just want to watch his video over and over....LOL Enjoy!

DISCLAIMER : DiscreetBai does not make any claims or suggestions to the sexual orientation or preference of the person or people involved in the video. 

Please practice safe sex!  Be responsible for yourself and others!

This video is for entertainment purposes only and should never be imitated.  Actors in this video undergo physical preparation (anal cleaning, HIV testing and others).

Please read more information about HIV AIDS and safe sex!

http://www.discreetbai.com/p/hiv-aids.html

http://www.discreetbai.com/p/condom-use_24.html

http://www.discreetbai.com/p/oral-sex.html

HIV AIDS in Cagayan de Oro City

In past years, there has been a sudden increase of HIV-AIDS cases in the Philippines, most of which was through male-to-male sex.  The Department of Health has already declared an AIDS epidemic outbreak in the Philippines including Cagayan de Oro City.

For the first time in decades, the HIV-AIDS case in Cagayan de Oro City has reached double digits.  Here are the full statistics in the past years:

2008 - 6 cases

2009 - 9 cases

2010 - 14 cases
 2011 - 27 cases
2012 - 52 cases
2013 - 100+ cases (projected)

Based on the statistics, the rate of the viral infection is at One Hundred (100%) percent annually.  If we follow this trend, in 2013, the HIV-AIDS cases in the city will reach the 100 mark. 

If you are from Cagayan de Oro City, call the AIDS Hotline number (8822-area code) 72-1189.  This is a service by the City Health Office of Cagayan  de Oro.  They will entertain your questions without malice.  If they do insult or embarrass you in anyway, call the attention of the City Health Officers and report such incident.  These people are supposed to assist you in anyway. 

See other related articles

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http://www.discreetbai.com/p/condom-use_24.html

http://www.discreetbai.com/p/oral-sex.html

Male rape is funnier than female rape?

A 14 year old boy was raped by a 24 year old guy in Toril, Davao City.  Doctors confirmed the rape.

The news was posted in Sunstar Facebook page.  Some comments posted in the page were a bit disturbing.  People were laughing and joking about it.  How can you laugh when someone was physically abused?

What if it was a girl?  Would people take the incident more seriously?


http://www.sunstar.com.ph/superbalita-davao/balita/2013/10/07/14-anyos-lalaki-gilugos-307352

House bill seeks LGBT desks in police stations

Good news for the LGBT community. Police stations may soon have desks that will handle hate- or sexually-oriented crimes against members of the lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender (LGBT) community, if a bill in the House of Representatives is passed into law.

If you have been robbed by call boy swindlers or any person, REPORT IT TO THE POLICE!!  You should let them know what is going on so they can be aware such things are happening.

http://www.gmanetwork.com/news/story/329529/news/nation/house-bill-seeks-lgbt-desks-in-police-stations 

Filipino nurse in the US murdered

US authorities are now close in solving the murder case of Filipino nurse Juanario “John” Rosas in Texas, USA.  An arrest warrant has been issued to Damien Lucas Salinas and was been formally charged for the murder of Rosas.  The girlfriend of Salinas was arrested for trying to burn down the house of Rosas and taper with evidence.

The news did not mention the relationship between Salinas and Rosas but in my personal opinion the two were intimately involved with each other.

I just hope the US authorities would find the suspect and bring justice to the death of Mr. Rosas.

Wanted suspect : Damien Lucas Salinas

Belated Happy Teachers Day!

Yesterday was Teachers Day.  To my mentors who guided me, advised me and terrorized me through my learning years, thank you for your time and effort for making me who I am today.

Video : Vintage Jerk Off

Here is a compilation of vintage masturbation videos.  Enjoy your weekend.

DISCLAIMER : DiscreetBai does not make any claims or suggestions to the sexual orientation or preference of the person or people involved in the video. 

Please practice safe sex!  Be responsible for yourself and others!

This video is for entertainment purposes only and should never be imitated.  Actors in this video undergo physical preparation (anal cleaning, HIV testing and others).

Please read more information about HIV AIDS and safe sex!

http://www.discreetbai.com/p/hiv-aids.html

http://www.discreetbai.com/p/condom-use_24.html

http://www.discreetbai.com/p/oral-sex.html

HIV AIDS in the Philippines

HIV AIDS infection rate in western countries are slowly decreasing.  However in the Philippines and other countries it is increasing drastically.

In 2010 the Department of Health declared an AIDS epidemic in the Philippines.

http://www.sunstar.com.ph/breaking-news/2013/10/01/hiv-cases-august-2012-306206

Avoid getting robbed or swindled in Cagayan de Oro

There have been incidents of robbery or fraud in Cagayan de Oro involving gay people.

To avoid getting swindled or robbed, here are some advise or tips to follow :

1. When meeting someone online, check their Facebook account or if not see each other through webcam. Today, most people have Facebook or webcams, so if that person does not have one, that is a warning sign.

2. If the person you meet online wants to meet with you immediately in your hotel room or apartment, that is a warning sign. Meet this person first in a public area or through webcam. If you do not like the person you are meeting, you can make an excuse and leave the place or simply turn off the webcam.

3. If you bring these strangers to your hotel room or apartment/home, make sure the hotel has a CCTV camera and the guy should register or surrender an ID to the hotel receptionist. Better yet, leave your valuables with the hotel receptionist for safe keeping and instruct them never to give it to anyone except you. Take a photo of the guy using your phone and send it to friends. If at home, make sure someone is at home to assist you in case of emergencies.

4. Gay swindlers are now in social networking sites. If the profile photo is not the same with the actual person you meet, that is a warning sign. Make an excuse and leave immediately. Do not anymore entertain them.

5. If someone asks you for a night out with his so called "friends and cousins", that is a warning sign. You might end up paying all of the drinks and even more. Sometimes you go out in a date, only to find out that his "cousin" will join you later. If this happens, make an excuse and leave! These swindlers sometimes operate in pairs or groups.

6. When in a motel, if the guy insists that you take a shower first, this is a warning sign. This is an opportunity for these swindlers to take your belongings and even your clothes. If you shower, take your clothes with you inside the bathroom and lock the door.

7. If you meet someone new and that guy wants to have sex with you, ask that person, are you a call boy? Some of these guys would not tell you that they are call boys. After sex they would suddenly ask money from you, even though you have not talked about it.

8. If a gay swindler threatens you that he will create a scene or "mag eskandalo" if you do not give your belongings, you should reply....GO AHEAD! PAG ESKANDALO. These swindlers are just bluffing. They do not really want to create a scene or else they will get involved in it and their identity exposed.

9. Beware of "masseurs" advertising their massage services online. There have been complaints of theft and swindling. It is best to get recommendations from friends or a reliable website.

10. Cagayan de Oro has a high HIV AIDS infection rate in Northern Mindanao. Every year infection rate in the city doubles (100% increase). You should not only be concerned about your physical safety when dealing with these call boys but your health as well.

Share this with friends! If you have been a victim of these swindlers, REPORT them to the Police!

Pinoy Male Stripper

Found this guy in Facebook.  According to his profile, he is from Laguna.  A part time male stripper and masseur.

 

Cosmo Bachelor Hunks 2013

The Cosmo Bachelors make good girls go bad!  So how about gays? LOL