Sunday, July 24, 2011

Anal Sex

There is this misconception that only homosexuals and bisexuals engage in Anal Sex.  There is also a growing number of straight men and women who does it.  Some straight women engage in anal sex to avoid pregnancy and at the same time technically preserve their virginity.
Women find it pleasurable as the rectum shares the same wall lining with the vagina and sexual nerves are actually closer on that side, which make the sensation unique, stronger and quite possibly orgasmic.  Men on the other hand gets pleasure from the stimulation of the prostate gland which is also located along the rectum wall.

It is important to empty the rectum of feces before engaging in anal sex.  This is usually done through enema or anal douches.  Professional advise is recommended in performing enema or anal douches as it might damage your internal intestine and cause dependency for bowel movement. 

Anal Douche
The anus contains several sensitive nerve endings that can be stimulated and aid in male and female orgasm.  This can be done through anal play or rimming (using the tongue to stimulate the anus).  However there are health issues regarding this method of stimulation as microbes from feces are present.  This is the most common way of transmitting Hepatitis A, B and other viral infections.

The intestinal walls does not feel any pain.  Therefore foreign objects inserted in the anus might get stuck and cause internal bleeding without knowing it.  Caution is therefore advised.  Avoid sharp or rough objects being inserted in the anus.  Fingernails should be trimmed and piled.  When inserting a foreign object in the anus, make sure the base of the object is wide enough to stop it from being sucked in the anus.  Vegetables are sometimes used for anal masturbation but can leave microorganism in the rectum and breed bacteria.

Heavy lubrication is important in anal sex as the anus does not produce natural lubricants like the vagina.  Water based personal lubricant is recommended.  These are available in local pharmacies here in Cagayan de Oro, such as EZ Lubricating Jelly, KY Jelly and others.  If no water based lubricants are available, saliva or spit is acceptable.  Lotions (body and hand), baby oil and other oil based lubricants are not recommended as it causes skin irritation and fissure of the skin.  Oil based products can also damage or cause condom breakage.

The use of condoms is important to avoid skin (rubbing of skin can cause micro skin fissures or scaring and cause blood exposure) and semen contact which is the common mode of HIV-AIDS transmission, Hepatitis and other viral infections.  Condom breakage is common in anal sex.  Change condom often and apply heavy lubrication (water based or saliva only).

Bleeding of the anus is common during the first anal sex.  To avoid massive bleeding, the anus should be stimulated (fingering) and enough personal lubricants (water based) should be applied.  It will take several tries before total insertion of the penis is achieved.  Insertion of the penis should be done gradually to avoid more anal damage.  After anal sex, flatulence (farting) and bowel movement will become regular since the anal muscles are now loose and could not contract.  Itching will follow a day after as the anus tries to heal.

In some countries, anal sex is considered illegal especially in conservative societies.  In some US States, the Anti-Sodomy laws are still being upheld.  In the Philippines, it is illegal to forcibly engage in sodomy or anal penetration with a women under the Anti-Rape law of 1997 (RA 8353).  However it is not clear if the law includes men.

11 comments:

Anonymous said...

dli nah mkadaot fingeron ang anus? gabuhaton mn gd nko nah sometimes.. heheh

Anonymous said...

finger raman kaha? di man. kung duha na muluag na gyud imo asshole

Anonymous said...

so kng duha na kbuok finger, mkadaot nah? or ok ra? hehe

DiscreetBai said...

imagine sticking your finger in your nose...try sticking two fingers in your nose...sa ka dugayan mu luag ug mu dako ang buslot sa imong ilong. i am not sure if there would be some "damage" but of course do not expect your asshole to be the same before.

DiscreetBai said...

Make sure when you finger yourself, you have short nails. Para di musok-sok ang hugaw sa imong kuko. You also have to wash your hands afterwards. better yet use a clinical glove to finger yourself para limpyo ug dali ra ilabay ang gloves. Use a water based lubricant for easy penetration. Just read the entire article about anal sex.

Anonymous said...

yeah! great advice.. ako nah e try.. mas ok mn pud moluag ang buslot sa ako anus pra prepare kng mgbottom ko.. heheh.. gawash mn ko prmi sa ako hands pd.. pra clean jd.. heheh.. creamsilk mn ako gamit nga lubricant.. ok ra nah?

DiscreetBai said...

Creamsilk shampoo or conditioner? So far it is being used by some people because it is cheap and readily available pero ubang tao ga ka irritate ilang lubot ana. Sabon baya na unya mabilin sulod sa imong lubot. Do not use regular SOAP or even hand soap kay muhapdos gyud na. Mas maayo pud if imo gamiton kanang mild like baby shampoo or conditioner. Most would advise to use spit or imong laway para lubrication. Klaroha lang nga limpyo pud nga laway nga dili gikan ka pa ug kaon. Take note, you use shampoo or conditioner for fingering yourself but for anal sex, gamit kana ug water based lubricants. In fact the ideal lubricant for any anal play is water based lubricants like KY Jelly which is used for ultra-sound and EZ Jelly being sold by Trust Condom. You can buy them in Watsons or in pharmacies. Ang problema lang aning mga water based lubricants, mahal sya.

Unknown said...

Hahaha..i lyk dat topics..! Makes me fell alive.,for i am a first timer sir.!!!.does it really applicable on sex performing if i want sir? Nakikilite ako sa topiks nato! My nervs is vibrating.. anu kaya kaya feeling pag first time?.hehehe

DiscreetBai said...

Anal sex depends on you. Some people like anal sex, some find it uncomfortable. To each his own preference. However there are ways to make it comfortable enough. As mentioned in the article use heavy lubrication like EZ Jelly or KY Jelly. EZ and KY are waterbased lubricants that does not irritate the skin unlike oil based lubricants such as body lotion and of course oil. For first timers, some suggest to use the finger first. Try to make the ass more relaxed and open. It might take time for the first penile penetration to happen. Again the purpose here is to make the bottom comfortable not to shock him with pain. Always use a condom when engaging anal sex. Check out Condom topic in the blog.

Anonymous said...

Aha ta makapalit aning lub?

DiscreetBai said...

Watsons or in any pharmacy. EZ Jelly is sold in sachets para barato lang.