How to Detect Online Dating Fraud

Good day! A warning to social networking media users (GayRomeo, Facebook and others).  Be careful who you meet or date online.  Several people have already complained of fraud or being swindled by people they met in Cagayan de Oro City.

Here are some tips to follow:

1. When meeting someone online, check their Facebook account or if not see each other through webcam. Today, most people have Facebook or webcams, so if that person does not have one, that is a warning sign.

2. If the person wants to meet with you immediately in your hotel room or apartment, that is a warning sign. Meet this person first in a public area or through webcam. If you do not like the person you are meeting, you can easily leave the place or simply turn off the webcam.

3. If you bring these strangers to your hotel room or apartment/home, make sure the hotel has a CCTV camera and the guy should register or surrender an ID to the hotel receptionist. Better yet, leave your valuables with the hotel receptionist for safe keeping and instruct them never to give it to anyone except you. Take a photo of the guy using your phone and send it to friends. Never go with these guys alone in your home. Always make sure someone is at home with you.

4. If the profile photo is not the same with the actual person you meet, that is a warning sign. Make an excuse and leave immediately.

5. If someone asks you for a night out with his so called "friends and cousins", that is a warning sign. You might end up paying all of the drinks and even more. Sometimes you go out in a date, only to find out that his "cousin" will join you later. If this happens, make an excuse and leave!

6. When in a motel, if the guy insists that you take a shower first, this is a warning sign. This is an opportunity for the swindler to take your belongings and your clothes! If you shower, take your clothes with you inside the bathroom and lock the door.

Share this with friends!  If you have been a victim of these swindlers, REPORT them to the Police!  

Check other related topics

http://www.discreetbai.com/2011/07/tips-and-cautions-of-online-dating.html

http://www.discreetbai.com/p/call-boy.html

A Call Boys Complaint

A call boy posted a comment in this blog complaining that they were being belittled.  Naka minus mi ug call boy?  Please READ the original article of "Cagayan de Oro Call Boys, then and now".   Unsa man ang mga call boy sa una kompara karon dinhi sa Cagayan de Oro?  Sa una, walay problema makig storya sa call boy.  Kung unsay gi sabutan mao ang tumanon.  Ang call boy karon? Ang gi sabutan 500, paghuman iyot nahimo nag 5,000!?  Unsa na? Kada kiyod naay interest?  Bakak bani akong gi pang ingon dinhi?  Kung bakak ni, ngano DAGHAN ga pang reklamo nga gi pang-ilad sila? 

Naa pay uban nga WALAY GI SABUTAN nga kwarta kay trip lang daw mag gay sex....pag human sa iyot, nangayo na ang lalake ug kwarta kay iyang fee!  Unsa may tawag ana nga modus?  Di bana pangilad?  The person was expecting a casual free sex but the guy asked money afterwards.

I do not hate all call boys.  Why would I hate them all?  Kung naay call boy dinhi nga maayo mo serbisyo, I would welcome you and show you the same respect I give to other descent people.  Pero kung ilad ra inyong tumong, diha gyud ta magbunggo.

This is my challenge to all call boys in Cagayan de Oro....do the right thing!  Kung naa moy kaila nga call boy nga gapangilad ra sa iyang client....badlonga!  Kay kanang iyang pangilad, makadaot na sa inyong panginabuhian.  Kinsa pa man mu hire ug call boy kung magduha duha ang tao ninyo?  Do not blame us, kay kamo ray ga daot sa inyong kaugalingon.

Yes, I am pointing all of my five fingers to you!